Let’s be honest: learning golf as a beginner can feel a little… intimidating. There’s the terminology, the etiquette, the occasional unsolicited advice and that tiny voice that wonders, “Do I actually belong here?”

Luckily, Taylor Swift has basically built a career on reminding us that starting out is messy, growth isn’t linear and confidence comes from showing up anyway. And while she’s never dropped a golf tutorial (yet), her music and eras offer some surprisingly relatable lessons for women learning to play golf — for fun, not for trophies.

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So here are some beginner golf lessons Taylor Swift taught us (kind of) with zero pressure, lots of encouragement and a healthy dose of fun.

Embrace Being a Beginner (Debut Era Energy)

Taylor didn’t start out selling out stadiums. She started with curly hair, big dreams, and awkward first performances. Beginner golf is the same.

You are supposed to:

• Miss shots

• Forget your club distances

• Take practice swings that feel weird

• Laugh… a lot

Golf isn’t about being good right away. It’s about being brave enough to start.

If you’re new to golf, your only real goal should be getting comfortable being uncomfortable. Every golfer you admire—yes, even that effortlessly chic woman crushing drives—was once a beginner too.

Tee to Toe Tip: Focus on learning one thing at a time. Grip today. Alignment next week. Confidence always.

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Confidence Comes Before Perfection (Fearless Mode)

Fearless Taylor showed up even when she wasn’t sure how things would turn out. That same energy belongs on the golf course.

You don’t need:

• A perfect swing

• Fancy clubs

• Expensive outfits

You do need:

• A willingness to try

• A sense of humor

• Confidence that grows with every round

Golf confidence isn’t about playing perfectly, it’s about standing on the tee box and swinging anyway.

Beginner Reminder: Confidence feels awkward at first. That’s normal. Keep swinging.

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Visit our “Beginner’s Hub” for free access to a golf starting guide, easy-to-learn golf lingo & etiquette and more. All fun, all made for women golfers who are just starting out 💚.

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It’s Okay to Feel All the Feelings (Red Era Reality)

Some rounds will be amazing. Others will feel chaotic, emotional and slightly dramatic. That’s golf, bestie.

You might:

• Stripe one shot and immediately chunk the next

• Have one hole where everything clicks

• Want to quit… then hit a great shot and fall back in love

Golf teaches emotional regulation whether you asked for it or not.

Let yourself feel frustrated, but don’t spiral. One bad hole doesn’t define your round. One bad round doesn’t define you as a golfer.

Tee to Toe Tip: Celebrate the good shots, not the final score.

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Make the Game Your Own (1989 Freedom)

Golf has rules but your experience doesn’t need to be rigid or stuffy.

Play:

• Forward tees

• Nine holes instead of eighteen

• Music in your cart

• With friends who make you laugh

There is no single “right way” to enjoy golf, especially as a beginner. Golf-for-fun is still very much real golf.

Beginner Lesson: If you’re enjoying yourself, you’re doing it right.

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Comfort Is Part of Confidence (Yes, Outfits Matter)

Let’s talk outfits, because feeling good physically matters when you’re learning.

Wearing:

• Clothes that move with you

• Shoes that don’t distract you

• Outfits that feel like you

…can make beginner golf so much more enjoyable.

If you want help with this part, make sure you grab the free “5 Complete Golf Outfits” download, which includes product links and style notes designed specifically for beginner-friendly comfort and confidence. One less thing to overthink = more mental space for your swing.

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Invest Smart, Not Stressfully (Budget-Friendly Lessons)

Beginner golfers do not need to buy everything all at once.

You don’t need:

• A full 14-club set

• Tour-level gear

• Every golf accessory under the sun

You do need a few smart essentials and a plan.

That’s why the Budget-Friendly Golf Checklist for Beginners exists. It walks you through what actually matters when you’re starting out, helping you avoid overspending while still feeling prepared.

Tee to Toe Tip: Spend money on lessons or practice time before upgrading gear.

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Quiet Confidence Is Powerful (Folklore & Evermore Energy)

Golf doesn’t always have to be loud or competitive. Some of the best beginner moments happen quietly:

• Early morning tee times

• Peaceful walks down the fairway

• Soft focus on one shot at a time

You don’t need to compare yourself to anyone else on the course. Your journey is your own, and growth happens in small, meaningful ways.

Beginner Lesson: Consistency beats intensity every time.

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Trust Yourself (Midnights Mindset)

Eventually, something magical happens. You stop overthinking everything.

You:

• Trust your setup

• Swing without freezing

• Recover faster from bad shots

That’s not skill alone—it’s self-trust. And it builds every time you show up.

Golf is a long game. Learning it is too. Be patient with yourself.

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You’re Doing Better Than You Think

If Taylor Swift’s career tells us anything, it’s this: you don’t have to be perfect to be powerful. Beginner golf is about learning, laughing and giving yourself permission to grow at your own pace.

And before you go, don’t forget to grab The Tee To Toe Golf Treat—your final little gift at the end of every post. It includes:

• 3 cute golf cards

• 3 golf wall art prints

• 1 blush-toned affirmation sheet

Because beginner golfers deserve encouragement both on and off the course 💕⛳️

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