When a lot of women hear the words “golf tournament,” the brain immediately jumps to serious faces, complicated rules and all about scores.

Hard pass, right?

But here’s the secret no one tells you: not all golf tournaments are competitive, technical or intense. Some of them are basically a group outing with golf clubs, cute outfits, snacks and the occasional glorious shot that makes you feel like a pro (even if it was pure luck).

If you play golf for fun, friendship, fresh air and the excuse to wear adorable golf outfits, this post is for you.

Let’s break down the best golf tournament formats for casual women golfers, the kind that prioritize laughing, socializing and enjoying the day over shaving strokes off a handicap.

First Things First: What Makes a “Fun” Tournament?

Before we dive into formats, here’s the Tee to Toe definition of a fun tournament:

✔ You don’t have to be “good” at golf
✔ You’re playing with other people, not against them
✔ Mistakes are expected and laughed off
✔ The vibes are relaxed, social and supportive

If a format lets you share shots, take pressure off every swing and enjoying the experience instead of stressing over the score, it passes the vibe check

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1. The Scramble: Queen of Casual Golf Tournaments

If casual golf tournaments had a mascot, it would 100% be the scramble.

What is a scramble (the easy version)?

Everyone hits their shot.
The group chooses the best ball.
Everyone hits again from that spot.
Repeat until the ball is in the hole.

That’s it. No complicated rules. No pressure.

Why women LOVE scrambles:

• You’re never “stuck” with a bad shot

• One great swing can carry the whole team

• Beginners and experienced players blend beautifully

• There’s lots of cheering and encouragement

2-person vs 4-person scrambles

• 2-person scramble: Perfect for smaller events or a golf bestie day

• 4-person scramble: Ideal for charity days, themed events or girls’ golf outings

💡 Style note: Scrambles are usually longer and more social, so comfy shoes and breathable outfits are your best friend.

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2. Best Ball (a.k.a. “Do Your Best & Relax”)

Best ball sounds intimidating, but it’s actually very beginner-friendly, especially when explained without golf jargon.

How best ball works, super simplified:

Everyone plays their own ball.
Each hole, the best score from your team counts.
Your personal score doesn’t always matter.

Translation? You can:

• Have a rough hole without ruining the day

• Celebrate your teammate’s great shot

• Play at your own pace without pressure

Why casual golfers enjoy it:

• You still get to play your game

• One strong player can balance out the team

• It feels social but still lightly structured

This format works great for women who are comfortable playing but don’t want every shot scrutinized.

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3. Fun Twists That Make Any Tournament Better

Now let’s get to the real fun: the extras.

These little twists can turn even the most basic tournament into a day everyone remembers.

Mulligans, the crowd favorite

Buy an extra shot. Use it when needed. Laugh about it later.

Common fun versions:

• Mulligan included with entry

• Mulligans earned through games

• Mulligans purchased for charity

Red Tee or Pink Ball Challenges

• One player uses a special ball

• Bonus prizes if it makes it through the hole

• Adds excitement without pressure

Sip & Swing Rules

Some tournaments encourage:

• Wine holes

• Snack stations

• “Cheers before the tee shot” traditions

Is it serious golf? No.
Is it fun golf? Absolutely.

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Choosing the Right Format for Your Group

If you’re planning or attending a tournament and wondering what works best, here’s a quick cheat sheet:

• Mostly beginners: 4-person scramble

• Mixed abilities: Scramble or best ball

• Small group of friends: 2-person scramble

• Social + charity vibe: Scramble with fun twists

When in doubt, remember: the goal is enjoyment, not perfection.

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What to Wear to a Fun Golf Tournament

Let’s talk outfits — because yes, it matters.

Tournaments usually mean:

• Longer time on your feet

• More walking

• Photos (lots of them)

You want outfits that are:
✔ Comfortable
✔ Flattering
✔ Golf-appropriate
✔ Cute enough for the clubhouse after

That’s exactly why I created a free style download just for Tee to Toe readers.

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New to Golf? Start Here 💕

If you’re reading this thinking,
“Okay this sounds fun… but I’m still pretty new to golf,”

I’ve got you.

Before you worry about tournament formats, mulligans, or anything else, the most important thing is feeling confident stepping onto the course in the first place.

That’s exactly why I created the Tee to Toe Beginner Kit for New Women Golfers.

It’s designed specifically for women who:

• Play for fun (not trophies)

• Feel a little unsure about golf “rules”

• Want to look cute and feel confident

• Don’t want to get buried in technical jargon

Inside the Beginner Kit, you’ll find:

• Simple explanations of golf basics (no overwhelming terminology)

• What you actually need in your golf bag (and what you don’t)

• Course etiquette made easy

• Beginner-friendly confidence tips

• Style guidance so you feel comfortable and put together

Think of it as your golf bestie in digital form — guiding you through the early stages so tournaments, scrambles and social golf days feel exciting instead of intimidating.

👉 GET THE BEGINNER KIT ON ETSY

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Golf Tournaments are Fun

Golf tournaments don’t have to be stiff, serious or stressful. With the right format, the right people and the right outfit, they can be one of the most fun ways to enjoy the game.

So say yes to the scramble.
Sip a little.
Swing your swing.
And remember — golf is way more fun when you stop taking it so seriously 💖⛳

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